To be a perfect parent (P.1)

Becoming a perfect parent is not difficult! Although each family has a different way of raising children, with the following 20 tips, you will be assured to nurture an obedient and healthy baby.

Limits wise

1 / Teach your children responsibility

Children love to explore and explore, so parents definitely have to set the rules for children to follow. Love must be full, but should also limit the baby to always do everything within the safe range.

2 / Teach your child to be independent

Babies born to be raised and comforted, but also need independence. Instead of always helping your child with everything, parents should let their children perform their children's "duties" in the family. Maybe just cleaning their own meals, putting dirty clothes in the washing machine or folding blankets and pillows on the bed, from these small actions, children will learn to be independent and not rely on their parents.

Teaching children to be independent like the Japanese It is a very common image to see a small child carry his own things, go to the supermarket with his mother or go out on the street. Children in Japan are taught to be independent from a very young age.

3 / Let your child overcome it

Parents have no duty to help children wherever they are. Instead, let children find solutions for themselves. Children will recover and be stronger in similar difficult situations.

4 / Discipline no tears

Discipline does not mean punishment . The whip does not help parents teach good children. Once you have been taught about the responsibilities and limitations of lifestyles and manners, you should learn to be sensible, considerate, and stay in control of your behavior.

5 / Debate selectively

To explain to the child, parents should be selective about the problem. Don't talk to your child about clothing, food, or other small matters. Instead, give them stern admonition about something really important like being violent, being rude, and lying.

Spend time with your baby

6 / Play with children

Let children choose their favorite games, parents just follow. Remember not to set rules during your child's relaxation and comfort times. The whole family is happy .

Weekends, the whole family is happy! (Children 6-12 years old) No matter how busy, weekend play is always a concern for parents. Complex supermarkets are always the first choice, having both an amusement park, a movie theater, and a place to shop and eat. However, could parents just let their children play alone and wait boredly? Why don't you plan to ...

7 / Read books every day

Mother should start this habit from when the baby is still in the womb, until the baby is born and the whole process of growing up. Children will be closer to parents through loving voices Helping your child build love for books is a perfect idea.

I remember to spend time reading with you every day

8 / Every day is a joy

Take about 10-15 minutes a day to play games with your baby. This is a great way to show your kids how much they love your children.

9 / Dad and son

Children taught by the three will possess courageous, strong personality and are ready to respond to any difficult situation.

10 / unforgettable memories

Children can easily forget their parents' words immediately, but mentioning some dear memories will surely not be forgotten. So, parents should take the time to create memories for your baby.

Exemplary role model

11 / role model for children

Children learn to observe and will become copies of their parents. So more than anyone else, parents should always be an example for their children, do more than say, be grateful, respectful and say no to bad things.

12 / Go green

Teach your children how to protect the environment around them. Do not spit indiscriminately, do not break leaves to break branches, do not throw rubbish around, learn to recycle and use discarded items. Don't be afraid to spend some time in the evening taking a walk in the fresh air.

13 / Always tell the truth

That is what all parents must teach their children and also the behavior that parents want their children to follow, right?

14 / Parents' love

Do not be afraid to show affection with hugs and kisses in front of your children. Limit arguments in front of your children. Children will understand how a close relationship is established, and know how to appreciate them.

The art of commendation

15 / Praise clearly

Don't just say, "You're great" or "You're good." Instead, parents should be more specific and detailed so they can do the same good things next time. For example: “I know you were very good when I waited for Mom to finish talking on the phone before asking for cake. Patience is good ”.

16 / Cheerful positively

When parents see their children behaving well, don't just smile and feel satisfied in their stomachs. Should cheer your baby with words, actions, a head wash, shoulder pat to encourage children to continue doing good.

17 / Praises whisper

Whisper, but also loud enough for your child to hear. Mothers can pretend to talk to stuffed animals, or talk to their husbands, grandparents or neighbors, about the child's obedience. Make sure your child is hearing this praise!

Believe in instinct

18 / Allow yourself to rest

There were days when she was terribly tired and couldn't cook a family dinner. Don't feel guilty about it, buy food home or go out for a meal, as long as it's fun together, Mom!

19 / Motherhood instinct

No one understands children like parents. When detecting abnormalities in children's behavior, lifestyle or health, 100% parents are feeling right.

20 / Learn to say no

Less work at work and for colleagues to spend more time with your children. Make sure your parents will never regret this decision.

21 / Do not accept disrespect

To parents and any other elderly person, teach children how to be respectful and respectful. Only then will children gradually learn how to behave better with anyone else.