The secret to teaching good children: Top 5 behaviors that need to be rectified

Do not underestimate your child's little bad habits, instead take care and teach them from a young age to avoid uncontrollable defects later on!

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1 / Interrupt adults

2 / Deliberately ignoring

3 / Bad when playing

4 / Oppose, defiant

5 / Lying, exaggerating

Not just being around to take care of your child's meals and sleep , parents should take the time to care and teach their children the smallest things to help them become more obedient and obedient. In the early years of life, children cannot recognize which behavior is acceptable, which is not. Instead, children learn by observing how their parents and those around them behave. Therefore, when playing and talking with your child, you should teach your child the values, moral standards and limits ... Correct deviations by attitude, behavior, language.

According to experts, personality education for children needs to be focused from a young age. The concept of "let me grow up and teach" is actually not true at all. In fact, from an early age, children have learned to receive information and imitate the behavior of adults, thereby forming good or bad habits. Here are 5 habits that if you do not educate in time, you will leave unpredictable consequences.

Imitating adults is the first step children develop their own personality. Therefore, parents should become "role models" for their children to follow

1 / Interrupt adults

Whenever an interesting story or a thought comes to mind, babies often have a habit of telling their mothers right away. This is quite normal. However, if you are talking to someone else but the baby is interrupting the story, you need to teach your baby this is not the right course of action. Tell your baby that it's impolite and disrespectful to others.

How to teach children?

If your baby wants to ask or say something, tell him or her to wait until the parents finish talking, unless it's urgent and serious. Parents also need to teach children to get acquainted and independent from a young age, so that they don't always ask for help when there is anything. In particular, when talking on the phone or talking to others, mothers need to ask the baby to be orderly and not to disturb.

If your baby is accustomed to always bumbling and "tailing", you should practice your child to sit and play for a while until it is done. This helps the baby understand that if he wants to play or talk to his mother, he cannot immediately achieve his will, instead must know how to patiently wait and restrain.

2 / Deliberately ignoring

When the mother is trying hard to call or urging the child to quickly do something, such as asking the baby to change clothes or to put away toys, but the baby still won't do it; Or when everything is still checked, you should take measures immediately. If this situation lasts for a long time, the baby will tend to disrespect their parents' words. Your baby may even think that it is okay to just pretend not to hear. Over time, the baby will become more stubborn and difficult to teach.

Bending:  Instead of screaming or yelling at your baby, you should gently approach and tell your baby how to do it right. Do not do for the child, instead ask the baby to do the assigned tasks immediately. The method of commanding your baby to perform in counting time is also quite effective, such as “counting from 1 to 10, you have to keep your belongings neatly”, or mom giving you a limit of 1 hour to change your pants. shirt.

If your baby still does not complete the assigned work, penalties such as prohibition of going out, not buying for toys, candies ... Note: No matter how stubborn your baby is, you should also learn to control the attack. my anger. Getting angry and yelling at your baby just makes things more confusing.

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3 / Bad when playing

When playing with friends or acquaintances, if your baby does bad things like taking your toys, hiding things, wanting to take things from others ... you need to be straightened. There is no need to wait until your baby has violent behaviors like hitting you, pinching the baby or pushing to deal with it. If your baby does not stop these behaviors in time, he will continue to think that others are weaker so it is normal to be bullied. Over time, the level of violence will gradually increase with age.

Bending:  When you let your child play with you, parents need to keep an eye on them. If your baby shows signs of “playing badly”, ask him to stop immediately and apologize. Besides, parents also need to explain to the baby what the bad deed is. If the baby still commits a crime again, the mother can punish the baby not to play anymore or receive an appropriate punishment such as detention, face to wall ...

4 / Oppose, defiant

When children begin to become aware of their actions and words, they will show that they are a good or spoiled child through whether they are obedient or not. With stubborn children, if they are not strictly taught, they will increasingly love to show their opposition and like what they do.

Some children often show their attitudes by imitating adults' words and behaviors in a rebellious manner such as rolling their eyes, glaring, or bluntly speaking, yelling at others. When babies have these behaviors, if they are not promptly corrected, they will have very serious consequences. Your baby will have a disrespectful attitude, disrespect others and become chaotic and insolent.

The secret to teaching good children : First, you should explain to your child that the above actions are not correct, they are not allowed to do the same things. Then, tell your child that only bad kids do. If these actions are continued again, the baby will be punished. Every time a baby recurs bad habits, mothers should impose a more severe punishment. Gradually, the baby will learn to give up and not dare to do the same actions with everyone.

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5 / Lying, exaggerating

Children in preschool age possess a very rich imagination. Sometimes, it is difficult for a baby to tell the difference between imagining and lying. So, from time to time, mothers may come across babies creating stories based on their own imagination. Young children are often very innocent and sometimes unable to perceive the state of being overstated.

If you encounter these cases, parents need to pay attention to stop immediately. Over time, the habit of liking over-talking can become the source of lies. Children may be intentionally misleading to avoid doing things they don't like when asked or to avoid their guilt.

Correction:  When a child is discovered with this manifestation, parents need to find out why the child said that and ask the child to correct the mistake, not to continue to say the wrong truth even the smallest thing. At the same time, explain to children what is real and what is imaginary. Parents need to teach children to be honest in everything and especially not to lie to adults about anything. Seriously to me that if you keep telling the wrong truth, no one will believe you anymore and everyone will avoid you because of disability or lying. Praise should be given to them when they bravely admit their wrongs and let them know that lying is bad often.