Mother cling is normal. Sticking three is the strange thing. But to get that paradox, fathers also have to try for a long time, because nothing comes naturally.
Mom feels great when the baby is a "tail" to stick every day. But he also loves the baby very much and also wants to be with the little angel every moment of his free time, wants to feed him and play with him.
It wouldn't be surprising if daddy feels abandoned if the baby keeps on sticking to the mother . After all, I want to be a part of your baby's childhood memories. It will be depressing at the end of this day, ending the strenuous work, wanting to play with the child, but just touching it, the baby cried uncomfortable. It is like treating my father as a stranger.
Don't worry, the explanation for this behavior is simple - Babies get used to their mothers because they are with you all day from after birth so naturally, babies feel a little disoriented when dad appears at age . This is disturbing but completely normal.
Every father wants to be close to the baby and somewhat hurt when the baby just clings to the mother
Fortunately, both husband and wife can turn the situation in a more positive direction. Some suggestions below:
Not related to the individual
Remind your husband that the baby is not close to the father regardless of the love he has for the baby. There is no personal denial here, simply that the baby is getting to know the person who is taking care of her all day. Everything will be fine gradually.
Let go of your shyness and tears
Dad should spend more time with the baby. Dad may feel uncomfortable and flinch when he cries and screams the first time he approaches, but just let it go because it didn't last long. Dad continued to play with the child despite the baby's seemingly moody and distressed behavior.
Be part of your routine
Dad can participate in preparing the bed, changing the pants, washing or bathing every day for the baby. These seemingly small jobs bring close opportunities to the father and son, making the baby have more feelings for him.
If you don't want to be considered a stranger, take care of the baby with your mother
Soothe when your baby is sad
Regularly showing your baby affection is very important, especially when your baby is hurt and mentally unstable. Daddy is more likely to form a bond that is tightly connected with your baby if you stroke and hold your baby when you're sad.
Talk to your baby while eating
Sure, dad will feel tired coming home if the baby keeps screaming uncomfortable, but if you give up the opportunity to be near you at night, it will be very difficult to build close relationship with your father. So let's take advantage of the time when your baby eats rice, sitting beside him and helping him eat better will break the stress. Eventually, the baby begins to enjoy the meal with the father at her side.
Eye contact
The baby likes to have his father follow his actions. Those are signs that your baby is special and that daddy is getting your attention. So, don't forget to make eye contact when talking to your baby. During these times remember to ignore distractions from cell phones and televisions.
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