Let children learn from reality

Anyone who has experienced the feeling of being a parent of a stubborn and rebellious child can permeate the luck and happiness of parents with good, polite children. However, that luck is not completely "falling from the sky". So, where did these parents get those "fortunes"?

Let children experience mistakes for themselves

Not only adults but also children learn a lot from experiences and stumbles. Give your child a chance to immerse in group activities. From there, the baby will automatically learn a lot of common ways. For example, if a child is accidentally selfish just wants to hold onto his toy, when he gets "punched" a few times, he will understand the problem that contributing toys together will be much more fun.

However, this method will be a double-edged sword if you do not pay attention to your baby's self-experience and take measures to prevent long-term misconduct that will become difficult to correct such as not allowed to play together. then your baby will hit and scare you to join.

Explain, explain and explain

If there is a prize for the object who asks the most "Why", the young children will definitely win the championship. We adults often have a habit of ignoring children's questions that we often consider meaningless like, "Why does superman wear underwear?", "Why is A better than her B?" Teacher doesn't say that friend A is talented and friend B is talented? ”,“ Why should I say hello to Mr. C when he doesn't say hello back? ” Do not ignore any questions of your child because only when you are satisfied and make your child understand why to do this and why not to do that, will he or she obey you. Gently make the child understand, “A greeting shows the courtesy of each person. If someone does not greet others, that person may be too busy or because they are not polite and not good. Good guys just like to play with other good people. Do you like playing with bad friends? ”

Patiently explain to your child what to do and what to avoid.

Suggestions, do not scold

The most taboo in teaching children is scolding and making children lose face in front of others. Although young, but not so that the " I " in the child has not formed. Parents should only give feedback depending on the degree from gentle to severe. When children eat or talk inappropriateness, do not show off scolding them in crowded places. They will be extremely embarrassed and leave a deep wound in the young soul. You should hold back the anger and do not act lightly towards the child. Just wait patiently when you come home, it is not too late to criticize and teach your child how to speak and eat. And also don't forget to include an explanation of why you should do this and absolutely shouldn't do that.

Praise - do not regret words

If you should save up scolding children in crowded places, do not give compliments to children whenever they obey or behave properly in public. Warmly praised when "Oh, I know how to pick up trash and put in the bin so well" or happily hugged and kissed her, "Cu Ti, my family knows how to prevent you from breaking trees, picking flowers is very admirable."

In many other articles devoted to other children's educational topics, the parent role model element is always repeated and will be reminded forever because this is the most vivid lesson for any child. . What children will behave tomorrow is a copy of what their parents are doing today. Therefore, the last secret that the writer wants to send to parents is only encapsulated in two words: Be an Example.

Wishing you everyone's admiration, "Why is your baby so good!"