Over-indulging in children: The benefits are much less

Many parents often have a habit of pampering their children and always respond to all requirements of the baby without thinking that this action will adversely affect the next day.

Studies show that over-indulgence leads to self-centeredness and wanting everyone to do what they want. Without the timely educational method, children easily have many other bad actions. To resolve this issue, read the following aFamilyToday Health article .

Parents 'parents' habit of pampering their children

Pampering your kids doesn't just stop at buying lots of gifts or snacks for their kids, but there are also some ways such as:

Give your child too much convenience: Buying your child too many toys, technology equipment or taking them out in times that are not really needed can be harmful. Children need their own silence to learn to play and create joy for themselves, not just through what parents give.

Overprotecting: When you do too much for your children, parents will hinder their children from learning the skills needed to build independence. Do your child's homework, feed them, brush their teeth, wash their teeth, wear their shoes even if they are old enough to do them or comfort them in any way when they ask for something. This action will gradually form a barrier for the healthy development of the child.

Lack of discipline:  If you do not train your child to follow the general rules of the family, in the future, the child may become a lack of sense of discipline. Every time they throw things or scream when they are not satisfied, punish them with simple chores or sit still in the corner to calm them and realize their mistakes.

Why should not pamper children?

You need to learn the difference between wants and needs. When they get everything they want, they will begin to think like they can't play games without the most modern tablet or run with old shoes.

Children may think that happiness comes from matter, not spirit. This leads to the misconception that the more things there are, the happier they will be.

Because they like the outside material, they always want to be shown to everyone as well as receive admiration from their friends.

Children may not appreciate what they have. When you are able to meet the requirements easily, of course you will not care if toys, electronics or clothing are damaged or lost. Therefore, children are not trained to be responsible, take care of their belongings carefully.

If you are not disciplined, you accidentally teach your children not to follow the rules. When rules are not being enforced, children will believe that the rules do not apply to them and imagine themselves more special than others.

Stop pampering your child

If you feel guilty about pampering your baby too much, change it up by letting go of the habit of being soft at your child's demands and saying no when your baby has inappropriate desires. In the first time, the child's acts of protest and non-cooperation will be increasing. This can be confusing and painful, but stick to it and set the rules. This effort by you is to help your baby grow not only physically but also personality.