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Why does the baby not listen to parents?
When raising children, what many parents want is obedience and obedience. But if the child is not obedient, what is the reason why parents can mold and teach their children the right things?
Cause the baby does not obey their parents
Parents too pamper the baby
The main cause of babies becoming spoiled is that parents are too indulgent, easy, do not set limits for the baby and be overwhelmed by their baby's tantrums and lamentation. If parents give babies too much power, they will see themselves as the center of everything. Many parents do this with the desire not to want their children to deal with extremely normal feelings of disappointment in life. Sometimes babies have parents who work and are cared for by a nanny or a babysitter. Nannies can spoil babies by letting them play video games all day and convincing them with unrealistic demands.
Parents do not want to hurt their babies
The reason some parents over-indulge their babies is because they confuse their baby's needs (such as the need to eat) with their baby's whims or whims (like the need to play). They don't want to emotionally hurt their baby or make him cry. At the same time, they can only take temporary measures to prevent the baby from crying. Over time, this can make your baby more fussy and fussy. Babies trying to cry and make noise to get what they want usually do not start before they are 5 or 6 months old. The tendency to spoil their children in our country is on the rise as some parents are always busy working until they return home and feel extremely guilty about not having enough time for their children. So during the short period of time with the baby, they often try to avoid friction or practice iron discipline with the baby.
Distinguish between caring for your baby and spoiling your baby
You need to know that caring for your baby to spoil him are two very different concepts. Overall, good care is good for children, but excessive, improper care can be harmful. Taking too much care can prevent your baby from learning to play on his own or learning to play with other babies. An example of untimely care is when you are busy and your child asks to hold you back or when your child is misbehaving and needs instruction, you ignore it.
Holding a baby is a form of care that some parents worry because they think this action could spoil the baby. It's not true: hugging your baby is an expression of love for your baby, so holding your baby a lot will not spoil your baby.
The result of the baby's disobedience to his parents
If left untouched, spoiled kids will bring you a lot of trouble when they reach school age. Other babies won't like them because they are too bossy and selfish. Adults will also dislike them because they are too rude and have excessive demands on themselves. In the end, they even become difficult to receive love from their parents by only performing bad behaviors. When spoiled babies don't get along well with other babies and surrounding adults, they end up being sad and feeling unhappy. Damaged children may experience symptoms such as decreased motivation and lack of perseverance to study at school. In addition, this can lead to risky behaviors, such as drug abuse. In short, spoiling a child will make their lives less well prepared in the future.
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