The art of raising teenage children from 9 to 11 years old

Between the ages of 9 and 11, your child will develop independently and enjoy friendly relationships. Friendships are important for your baby's development, but peer stress can have a powerful effect on your baby. Babies who feel good about themselves can more easily resist negative pressures and make better decisions. This is an important time for your baby to have responsibility along with independent development. Also, the physical change during puberty is more pronounced, especially for girls. The other big change your baby needs to prepare for is when he starts middle school.

How often do 9-11 year olds change personality?

Your child's specific changes are his emotional and social transformation, in his thinking and ability to learn. Parents can recognize these by the following symptoms:

For social and emotional changes, babies tend to:

Starting a stronger and more complex friendship, especially with same-sex friends;

Be under more pressure from friends;

Become more aware of your body during puberty. Body visualization and eating problems usually begin at this age;

While the changes in thinking and learning will come from your baby:

Face many learning challenges;

Become independent from family;

Began to see other people's perspectives clearer;

There are broader concerns.

How do parents raise children effectively in this period?

 You can follow these and help in tough times:

Spend time with your baby. Talk about your baby's friends, accomplishments and challenges he faces;

Contact your child's school. Attend school events, meet your child's teachers;

Encourage your child to join community groups and school groups such as sports teams or volunteer for a charity;

Help your child develop with their own feelings of right and wrong. Talk to your child about the dangers friends force him to do such as smoking or dangerous physical activity;

Help your child develop a sense of responsibility by making connections between them and household chores like cleaning and cooking. Talk to your child about how to save and use money wisely;

Meet your child's family and friends;

Talk to your child about being respectful to others, encouraging your child to help others, and what to do when meeting bad or disrespectful people;

Help your child set goals, encourage him to think about the skills and abilities he wants and how to get them;

Make clear rules and follow them. Talk to your child about what to expect, if you can explain to your child the reasons for the rules and expectations that will help your child know what makes the most sense;

Using discipline to guide and protect the baby instead of punishing it makes them feel bad;

When you praise, you should also let your baby have a sense of his accomplishments. You say, "You must be proud of yourself" is better than saying, "Mom / Dad is proud of you". You also need to encourage your baby to make better choices when no one is around to praise him;

Talk to your child about the physical and psychological changes entering puberty;

Encourage your child to read every day and help with homework;

You need to be affectionate and honest with your children and do everything with them as soon as possible.

Loving your children is not enough but you need to understand and communicate with them, become someone they trust to share and solve all their questions. Each stage has a different development, so you also need to apply different parenting methods, parents.