10 differences between a good family and a wise family

A good family will raise children based on social norms. The wise family will teach children both according to tradition and with the differences.

As parents, everyone wants their children to become successful people in the future. To achieve that, parents will have clever ways to teach their children from a young age. Here, aFamilyToday Health will reveal to you how to teach your children wise parents for your reference.

1. Promote independence

Some people think they will be successful in life if they believe they can do anything. However, there is still a difference that is more important than knowing that to achieve success, they have to do everything themselves, not from the help of others. 

2. Everything is not easy before getting used to it

In order to become an independent person in the future, you should acknowledge your child's efforts from a young age. If your child shows a new hobby regardless of his age, you should help and encourage him. Sometimes things don't go the right way, but you still tell your baby: "All the beginning can be a little difficult, try your best".

3. Trust is a valuable reward

What will you reward your child when he tries to help with housework? Not money or physical goods, of course. In fact, you can reward your children with your trust. If your child is completely trusted and assigned a task, he will think he is doing well.

4. Clean too harmful chemicals

An important difference between a good family and a wise family is cleanliness. There is an undeniable fact that keeping your baby clean and tidy when out and about will take you too much effort and time. Meanwhile, wise parents think that a baby cannot develop perfectly if only attentively on keeping clean and beautiful clothes. In fact, the child herself doesn't care about her appearance. So, let your baby be dirty the way your baby is.

5. Accept the mess

Children often mess around with toys or objects around the house, but wise parents don't mind because they understand that they need to be free to explore and create when things get messed up. That's why, instead of always complaining your kids about the room being cluttered, allow your baby to be messy but acceptable.

6. Play with pleasure

Some people may spend a whole day running after you and prohibiting them from doing everything, for example: “Don't climb a tree, you'll fall there”, “Don't touch the trash, it's dirty!”… That's it. is the way of life of a good family, what about a wise family? They will let you consume your energy because this is more important. When growing up, children will be more confident and persistent in all their efforts and will not falter, worry, and fear excessively. 

7. Comfortable in framework

Even though children are free to play around, even when doodling on the wall, the sofa can be seen as a sign that a child has the artistic potential of a painting. However, there are still limitations that children cannot overcome, such as disrespect for adults in the family and of course the punishments that come with them much more severe.

8. Parents are equal

Respect for grandparents, parents is something children need to be taught from a young age. Every child knows that in the family, parents have the highest rights and that whatever they do is less important. Therefore, in a wise family, the baby will be less dependent on the adults. To get what you want, you have to try and try yourself.

9. Children self-control

Instead of punishing a child by taking away something. You should create rules about the rewards or demerits of your child's actions. 

10. Don't miss anything

Wise parents understand that any child's achievement should be rewarded. Even when your baby brings you a doodle napkin and cannot recognize any shape, you are still excited to show off to your husband and family members.

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