Teach good children: Sentences should not be said to children

Not all parents can be calm when a baby is naughty or disobedient. Although they want to teach their children good, but because they choose to talk to their children and approach children, they unintentionally hurt their immaturity.

The way to talk to a parent's child is extremely important, no matter how angry you are, remember the ultimate goal of your baby's obedience and development of a healthy personality and life skills. Approaching the wrong child will make them feel unloved and become more stubborn. So think about what not to do when talking to your child.

Swap the baby "Shut up!" or "Shut up!"
You impose on your baby when you say this. You should give your baby the opportunity to speak and debate in a comfortable and polite environment because he has ideas that are worth thinking about. Of course, after talking with your children, it is up to you to make the decision, but it is necessary to have solutions that are oriented, rather than imposing.

"Father / mother forbids children to play with friends ... "
Want to teach good children to choose friends to play , you should carefully study the child's personality, family and friends to give appropriate advice to the baby, and listen. Children openly confide in their friends, not force them to play with anyone as you like. Because friends are so important to your baby.

To teach good children, first of all, it is necessary to understand children's thinking and feelings in order to behave appropriately

Do not say the baby is too clumsy / clumsy
Do not criticize the baby or clumsy or compare the baby with other babies. This makes your baby more confident, guilty and self-conscious that he cannot do anything and thus, the baby will not change as you desire. Instead, you explain to your baby what he did wrong and when he corrects him, praise him so he can feel proud of himself and change positively.

Feeling "out of place" when you have more babies
Babies feel pity when you tell them things like "You will be left out because you are going to have more babies." Understand the psychology of children and give them a sense of security as much as possible, friends!

"I will kick you out!"
When the baby is stubborn, refusing to obey, you say to your child: "I will kick you out if you don't obey", you want to teach your child to be good, but if you say these words, your baby will doubt and worry Don't know if your baby is your baby? Or vice versa, the baby does not care and is more and more stubborn because he knows it is just a threat from you.