10 Things Parents Shouldnt Tell Children (Part 1)

When you are angry, what you say when you say it can hurt your child even if you don't really mean it. These seemingly harmless statements can adversely affect the baby's psychology, causing the baby to lose confidence, causing negative emotions for the baby.

- Quotes like "Don't be stupid, nothing is sad, sad" or "Don't be afraid, it's nothing": Children sometimes feel sad and worry about things nowhere. Since the world around you is smaller than the world around you, it may not matter to you, but it really affects your baby. So instead of telling your baby that his or her things aren't worth it, sit back and talk to them about their feelings.

- "I hate you too" or "I don't love you anymore": Sometimes when I'm angry, babies often say "I hate you". But if you tell your baby something like that, he will really hurt. They are too young to understand that you are just saying that and you really don't mean it. Parents' love for their baby is what they have always been waiting for. So, that statement will become very terrible for the baby. Even after the conversation is over, everything is going to be normal, your baby will still remember what you told him.

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Instead of yelling at your baby, you should speak gently for the baby to understand.

- "You're stupid" "I don't count anything": When you are angry at what your child is doing or when your child is clinging to you in the kitchen but not doing something right to help you, you it is very easy to say "you are stupid". This statement can make your baby feel like he has completely failed, and he or she feels that he or she cannot do a good job. This can make your baby feel like a nuisance or trouble when he really just wants to give you a hand.

- "Don't cry anymore": The truth is when you shout "Don't cry anymore", your baby will still cry even more. And that makes you even more angry. Your baby may think his feelings are not accepted and they are wrong. Instead, talk to your baby about what makes him cry , is it because of something you said?

- "When the father / mother is the same age as your child, ...": You often tell your baby how much misery was like when you were young and compare with your baby now. But it doesn't help because the baby is only listening to one ear and then passing through the other. Really, your baby will not understand why you want to tell him such things. If you feel that your child is not grateful for what they have, you should speak directly to them instead of talking about your childhood.