The secret to teaching children: When to use sweets?

Any father or mother wants to pamper his pet. However, depending on the stage of development of the baby that you should reduce this "sweet" reasonably

Can the “soft-tie” option work well for parenting?

1 / Infants need attention
Brain research shows that the ability to self-soothe and manage anxiety later in life stems from being soothed as an infant. Children associated with being protected from their parents are healthy, have less anger, and develop a tolerant, sociable personality earlier. As they get older, they cooperate more with their parents, get along better with colleagues, learn faster in school, have higher self-esteem, are more flexible, and withstand pressure.

Furthermore, close parenting helps foster a strong connection between parents and children. You will be more likely to know what you need and how to respond, and that makes parenting easier.

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2 / As your child grows
Toddlers, preschoolers, and older children still have a strong need for connection with their parents. However, babies also need to freely explore the world around them. Babies need to be more active without parental control.

And this is when the "cuddling" parents encounter "obstacles". Most mothers will make the mistake of caring for and handling their child's needs. Instead of creating a safe environment, and allowing your child to enjoy exploring, mothers often limit activities to make children safer. Even a few people are ready to help you with any problems your baby has.

With babies, what they want is what they need. However, as a child grows up, their immediate desires often conflict with the baby's developmental needs. Good parenting means knowing when not to intervene and letting your baby fall, when to set a firm limit and let him get angry.

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3 / Teaching children the right way: What do you need to note?
- At each different age, the baby will have different needs: In order for the child to develop comprehensively, mothers should respect the needs of the baby. For example, a nine-month-old baby really wants to be on the floor to explore more often, not always lying in the “warm blanket and soft mattress”.

- Set basic limits: Children need to explore the world around them in order to develop their skills in the most perfect way. However, not so that I let you be too free. The basic limits are the rope to "hold" the baby within its safe limits. High and limited expectations are something to be absorbed as good habits and self-discipline.

- Carefully explain to your child: If you want your baby to do this or not, you should explain to your child why, not just force him to do his or her own wishes.

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