Having a child to raise a big child, taking care of a healthy child has been difficult to teach a child, so people are very arduous, there are many parenting methods with their own strengths and weaknesses, which type of parenting method do you usually follow down here?
Parents often criticize their children too much will make them lose their independence and always depend on other people's decisions ... If parents are highly democratic, being too clear will make children become stubborn. and difficult to manage ... When parents give a reward without punishment, they will never acknowledge their mistake when they are mistaken, ...
Teaching good children: Don't be too strict, one-way patriarch:
The commandments forbid, command like "This term you must get all 10 points, or else don't blame me", "Mom forbid me Playing with V, did you hear that? ” will easily crush your ego, making you lose more and more confidence in life. Then one day, you will have reactions or conflict and hate parents.
Teach your children to be good: Do not be too relaxed:
Children: "This weekend, I go out with friends for 2 days, Dad!"
Dad: "Yeah, have fun!"
In this case, I do not find out the reason why you went out with anyone, is it reliable or not, but still agreed to let you spend the night with friends. With such lax attitudes, children are easily spoiled, even looking for an outgoing object as their idol.
Teaching a good child is a process that takes patience and dexterity
Teaching children to be a good child: Considering a child as a precious child, "darling" is harmful to them.
From a young age, what can all the ladies and gentlemen in this family want, so when they grow up they know how to spoil their parents. When too pampering their children , the love of parents becomes a weakness, dependent on all their needs, making the child more and more overwhelming to satisfy their own needs.
Teach a good child: Do not consider your child as a "precious item on display in a glass case":
Parents always follow my every step, every action of the child is closely monitored. They fear that if you let go of me, I will get hurt easily, etc. So, inadvertently they put a heavy pressure on my spirit.
Democracy-style
parenting of children It's not easy to grow up and teach them to be human. Therefore, parents need to apply a democratic and fair method of teaching their children. The democratic parenting style always encourages children to be independent and promotes, on the other hand also sets a limit to control all of their children's activities. Democracy parents make children confident, have good social communication, consider their actions and take responsibility for themselves.
If you want to teach good children, you only need parents to have confidence and sophistication to establish a remote management, give them "freedom in a framework", firmly believe that they will grow up to be useful people for society.
Minh Trang