Modern parenting: 7 golden rules you need to know!

The child-rearing perspective of the great writer and educator Anton Semionnnovic Makarenko has been recognized by UNESCO. Have you ever heard of this opinion? Update the following 7 golden rules of parenting now!

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1. Raising good children, behavior is very important!

2. Seriousness, sincerity and reality

3. Understand your desires

4. I really need attention

5. Helping your child is fun, not a responsibility

6. Bonus - Smart Penalty

7. Teach your children to feel happy

Anton Makarenko (1888 -1939) is a great Ukrainian educator, famous for his work "Pedagogical Song" - the excellent work of a teacher who loves children, loves his profession. This is one of the two educators who have an educational and parenting perspective recognized by UNESCO. Along with MarryBaby learn 7 points of parenting this talented educator, mom!

What is special about Anton Makarenko's educational views? Try to find out mom!

1. Raising good children, behavior is very important!

Children learn everything from the world around them, and parents are the clearest examples. The baby not only learns through the mother's stories, or the way his father teaches math every day, but every parent's everyday behavior is a valuable lesson for his child: how to dress, how to treat friends, dad Mom, how to talk… If you want to teach good children , first of all, parents need to change their bad behaviors and habits.

2. Seriousness, sincerity and reality

Serious but not rigid, emotional but without lack of logic, reality. These are the most important factors mothers need to keep in mind when raising children. Mother can learn from everyone's experiences in teaching children, but above all, depending on the actual family situation as well as the child's personality, your education will be different.

3. Understand your desires

What do you expect from your child? What kind of person do you want to raise your child? Think carefully about this, and you can spot many mistakes in the way you teach your children.

Skills that a mother should teach from an early age Not only raising a healthy child, teaching a good child, a mother should also guide children with some necessary skills from an early age.

4. I really need attention

Like adults, children, even young children need private space and time. However, the baby is still very young, unable to control his own behavior and consciousness, so it still needs parental supervision. Give your baby some private time, but of course you should still grasp important information, such as where your baby is, what to do, who to stay with ...

5. Helping your child is fun, not a responsibility

Do not think that helping your children is a heavy responsibility, as it will make you feel stressed or even bored. However, the mother should not help the child do everything but just stand by the child's side, watching what the child does and not making the baby feel out of place. That is enough. Children also need to learn to deal with and solve their own problems.

6. Bonus - Smart Penalty

Teaching children how to fix or deal with mistakes when they make them can be fun, and help your baby feel comforted. Likewise, when a child achieves good results, recognition will also help motivate children. This is also a way to help children feel more confident in themselves.

Note: Whether praising, or reprimanding, mom should not abuse it, especially when in front of friends, or in public, crowded places.

Dangerous when the mother "slaps" the baby Do you think spanking will put the baby in order and obedience? In fact, not only does not help the baby become more obedient, "squatting" on the contrary can affect the child's brain development. There are even a few cases that can lead to a child's behavior disorder

7. Teach your children to feel happy

Happiness is not a drink, or food that only needs a recipe to be successfully mixed. Happiness depends on the individual feelings of each person. So, instead of imposing children on the standards of happiness in books, mothers should teach them to feel happiness in their own way.

Besides, you should also give up the thought of "sacrificing my life and strengthening my life". Happiness is not something that can be sacrificed. Parents should do good things for their lives. Your happiness will spread to your baby.