Female writer Trang has just shared about raising 3 children. Like many other mothers who breastfeed, she struggles when she first nurses her baby. The difference is that the experience has been drawn to relax when giving birth to 2 more angels.
On her personal social networking site, writer Trang Ha has just shared how to raise a child to become a lazy mother! That means being a mother can happily enjoy time for herself without having to mess around with diapers all day.
“I raise three children, the first one struggles to take up all the time each day. All day I only revolve around me, to the point that I turn 1 year old, I dare to go to work. Still, I feel that I am not attentive, clumsy, I should spend more time taking care of my children.
The following children are more and more leisurely: their mother has been born in less than a month and has been on a long-term business trip or abroad. I still have time to learn, learn to cook, study the Drama Department at the University of Theater and Cinema, then start jogging, morning aerobic exercise, coffee shop collection, writing and remorse. Sorry, why when I had my first baby, I didn't realize that:
Motherhood is a profession, it is a profession of time management!
All parenting skills, whether it's solids or solids, teaching independence, sleeping for children, milking machine, incubator, diaper, diaper, and even teaching kids to play with you, don't fight ... in fact, there is only one final goal: Helping the mother in a short time get the best results, that is to save her time to go to other jobs!
We only have 24 hours a day, every day mothers need 30 minutes of rest, not being a mother all day.
Some lessons learned by myself:
Wanting time to develop yourself, you are not allowed to be a mother who runs after her baby with a bowl and spoon in the nursery yard and tries to put a spoonful of food in her mouth every morning.
Because, dogs and cats can still eat, if they are thirsty, are children not as good as the pets in your house? Your child won't die for a meal, he won't die for a month! Let the children choose their own food, you only offer to eat this or that, ask if he can eat more or not, not force.
The rice tray that writer Trang Ha prepares for her children!
Let children eat from 1.5-2 years old
It spontaneously gets into its mouth, all, don't run after most of it! Boiled vegetables, boiled meat, boneless fish, warm soup, beef balls, shelled shrimp, steamed eggs, sesame seeds, seaweed, laughed beef cheese, even babies will eat with yogurt and pick up the flan cake, it's okay! At that time, the child considered the spoon and the bowl to be just toys!
Change clothes if dirty, wash dirty hands. After feeding my baby, I cried so busy, busy all the time, oh why am I suffering so much! (Then turn to blame my husband, why don't you help me take care of the baby?). Sometimes adults eat 1 tray, put the baby in the middle of the second tray right next to the baby, give the baby two food bowls, the food will fall clean. If you want your child to contact him or herself, he must give him the opportunity to learn to do it, and to enjoy himself.
When he was young, he only liked to eat fat and egg whites, onions, and in short, white food. I worriedly ran to ask for advice ... Professor Nguyen Lan Dung (he he) about the baby's diet, so it makes it deviant when developing.
Uncle Dung said, don't worry, just let it go, 95% of a child's brain is from fat and water, he likes to eat whatever he wants, let him eat, don't worry about brain damage. The child's body has a mechanism to signal what the body needs, what is lacking, for example, if there is a lack of water, the child will have a need to drink water!
And my experience: If I want my child to eat something else, I will cook that dish deliciously, making them happy! For example, if I want my child to eat more rice, I think of an egg covered with rice (eggs covered with rice), then change it to an egg-covered rice dish the next day (on the contrary, sprinkle with ma-gi on rice!), The next day is another dish Egg rice bowl (egg with rice in layers, cut out to look like a piece of rice cake!).
Geez, nothing, just let the hot rice cover up a plate, press flat rice, cover a thin fried egg on top, then take scissors to cut out a few dozen square pieces, every piece has rice underneath, eggs above, just 1 scoop! Children consider it a game, they will compete against each other who scoop up to eat without the eggs falling off the top of the rice spoon!
In just a few days, your baby eats a 1-bowl meal into a 2-bowl meal! Then put the vegetables on the top of each egg-covered rice piece, make 3 layers, when the rice is cooked, the difficulty increases! That's it, he eats a whole bowl of vegetables for each meal!
If your child hates, please cook it with the food he likes. For example, my child likes crab sticks but hates broccoli, so I cook broccoli crab stick, all cut to fit. Or like raw rolls and hate carrots, I cook spring rolls with carrots as shown in the picture.
If you want your child to sit in the potty, think of a story
I bought a tiny toilet lid for my child, he refused to sit! I then called the name of that tiny toilet lid as "sleeping bear friend" or "naked bear friend" (because printed on it was a picture of a bear with his head tilted), since then every time the baby goes to the toilet, what does the mother say? it's about you bear! Only 2 days, the baby accepted to use, and went to the toilet as an adult.
I set up a schedule when my 2-3th child was born: My husband went out 2-4-6 afternoon, my wife went out in the afternoon 3-5-7. .
And if anyone wants to stay at home to take care of their baby, it's okay, but, at least moms diaper 3 days a week to go out comfortably, lie down and read, there will never be postnatal stress, or see, life This makes me miserable, I don't have time to do anything! "
I looked around and looked up to see a baby climbing out on the railing on the upper floor. Seeing that, I opened the car door and tried to climb onto the metal roof to help him if he fell.
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