Not a beating whip for children to obey, methods of discipline for children are simply how mothers help children set limits, and help babies change their behavior. Therefore, it is never too early to apply discipline on children
Raising children is difficult, teaching a good child is even more difficult than a thousand times. In parallel with the forms of rewarding when a child has the right action, disciplinary measures are a way to help children realize their limits and find ways to change their behavior in accordance with the "framework".
With older children, the application of discipline can be a little easier, because now they have the awareness to distinguish right from wrong. However, saying that does not mean that children do not need discipline, mother! Although there is no right or wrong concept, the mother's little "tricks" will be the foundation to direct the child to the right action and train the child to adapt to the situation. In particular, mothers should note that, whether young or old, discipline must always be built on love and respect for children, and of course, it must be appropriate for each child's development period .
Mom should apply different "moves" in each stage of development of the child
1 / Discipline for children from 1-2 years old
The application of discipline with children in this period is mainly to keep the baby safe from his "twitches". When your baby pulls the power cord or intends to reach into the fan, the word "No" and a gentle little hand of the mother will help the baby turn to a safer "object". This is the first and most basic step to help your baby get used to slowly with discipline .
A little older, your baby may need other forms of discipline, like punishing them to stand in the corner for a few minutes when they make a mistake. However, before punishing the child, mothers should remember that the baby's "slightly negative" behaviors during this period can be due to anxiety, fear or influence of illness. In such cases, the best solution is for the mother to turn her baby's attention to something else. Children are forgetful at this age, and will quickly be attracted to new things.
3 tips for teaching children discipline from a young age Is your baby too young to be aware of the world around him or understand rules and discipline? Children do not know the rules to follow or need to avoid. Many babies may disobey their parents because they think that social norms have nothing to do with them until they are older. What should I do?
2 / "Coping" with preschoolers
At kindergarten age, children have a certain sense of right and wrong. Therefore, to apply discipline to the baby, the mother should base on the age, and the severity of the mistake that the child committed. However, before officially giving the baby a punishment, the mother should clearly explain to the baby about her mistakes, and be able to suggest things she can do to make up for her mistake. In addition, mothers can let the baby sit still for about 5 minutes, or cut down a certain privilege of the baby, such as reducing TV time.
In particular, mothers should have a strict direction if the baby has the following behaviors:
- Hit you, or the people around you
- Toss your toy
- Bullying you
- Lie
- Miss Behave
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