The definition of spoilage in each mother is different, even when a baby is 1 year old, you will not notice that the baby is spoiled, simply because you think the baby is young.
Like most parents, when a child 1 year or so a little older makes a small request, the parent is usually more likely to respond. However, satisfying everything can spoil the baby. There are things that need to be said strongly "no".
But how to spoil the baby? It is also difficult to determine. It is not simply about buying more for your baby or letting him have everything he wants. Sometimes, babies always try to "nag" to get what they want from their parents.
It also doesn't simply allow your baby to do what makes himself happy. All children should be allowed to make their own decisions at times.
A bad child is not entirely the fault of the child but also comes from the parents
Perversion is less likely to happen if you pay attention to what you give your child (whether it's gifts, attention or freedom). Children need to know why they are not asked for more.
Watch for 10 signs that your toddler may be about to "spoil":
You always give whatever you ask for.
Children get angry and cry until they get what they want and their parents give up first.
Children don't say "thank you" when given a new gift.
Children only think about themselves, not about friends or relatives around.
When a child does not get what he wants right away, the tantrum will flare up quickly.
If parents say "no" to the baby, the child shows an annoying attitude
Receiving new toys does not seem happy.
Children do not do what their parents ask for, even if it is reasonable.
Other kids don't like to play with them
People tell you that she behaves "splendidly".
Very few parents intentionally want to "spoil" their children, just accidentally. And it is the accident that helps the spoil to escalate every day that neither parents nor children notice. Until one day, a good friend or yourself has the courage to confirm it.
Comments like "You spoiled your baby too much" or even worse, "Your child is a spoiled child" is a warning to parents to teach them how to behave properly.