No matter how stubborn your baby is, how you react to your baby can make a difference. Try the following 10 tips of MarryBaby!
Parents need changes too
If you insist that in all situations, only children are wrong and their children need change, you can easily find it difficult to teach good children. Even if your child tries to get rid of the bad behavior, there's a chance the old thing might come back. The reason is that while children change their attitudes, their parents still maintain the same perception and response.
As a parent, you need to realize that you have a great influence on the way your children think and behave, which means that if your child has negative attitudes or behaviors, responsibility belongs to you.
Change your attitude towards your baby, listen to your baby, focus on the progress your baby has been working on instead of taking care of his shortcomings, always encouraging, encouraging him to do better, and more importantly Especially building and maintaining a close relationship with your child. When you feel respected, your confidence and self-control will increase. Over time, your baby will develop self-discipline and independence, which are very important to a child because you understand that parents cannot be with their children 24/24 to control everything they do.
Your child's actions may make you angry, but calmly consider why
If this doesn't work, try another.
Have you scolded your child for the past 5 years to remind him to do homework and is becoming more and more tiring without having any positive effect? Don't get discouraged and think of yourself as a failure parent. Instead, realize that scolding doesn't get the results you want.
Don't we have that "Failure is the mother of success"? Failure is an important part of every learning process and a stepping stone to success. Therefore, when you fail with one teaching, just change the other way. You understand that parents never give up on their children, and you never give up to a child's stubbornness, right?
Parents need flexibility in how they teach their children.
Many people have only two ways to communicate with their children: one is sweet, the other is bullying. And when both are useless, they don't know what to do next. To be successful in teaching your child, you need the flexibility to change your approach to the problem depending on the child's situation and attitude.
When you lack flexibility and children fully know what you will say, how will react in certain circumstances, it is the child who is in control of the situation.
This is the reason why many children, especially young children, are able to "control" their parents to get what they want. A good example is screaming when in public for a mother to buy a toy she wants because she knows she is afraid to be shy with everyone around.